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Posted by dandano 6/28/2025

I built something that changed my friend group's social fabric(blog.danpetrolito.xyz)
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russellbeattie 7/1/2025|
Interesting. But in my experience, the Australian need for daily social interaction with a group of peers - preferably including some sort of large alcoholic beverage - is quite a bit above average. Not sure how a group of Americans would respond.
socalgal2 7/1/2025||
I’m confused about what this solution does. I’d expect that as people move to discord all the message spam that was happening in signal would just eventually move over to discord as people got used to communicating there instead of signal
demaga 7/1/2025||
It encourages people to speak rather than type.

You don't get hundreds of messages per day by writing in email style. You get there if you have a lot of synchronous or near-synchronous communication in chat. It's kind of obvious that voice call suits this better, but there is friction involved in making an actual call.

Discord voice channel might reduce the friction if you make this culture of hopping in and out of it.

anigbrowl 7/1/2025||
If you don't care about Security/Privacy, Discord has a great UI and is probably significantly better for free-flowing group conversations
billdybas 7/1/2025||
> The hardest part was convincing people to download the Discord app on their phone as most of us didn't have it downloaded.

This was surprising to me – is this typical of most Discord users (primarily desktop users over mobile)?

OkayPhysicist 7/1/2025||
Discord was originally a place to organize for playing videogames with people. If you're using it for that purpose, you're probably on your computer already (because that's where the games are). Thus, the mobile app ends up being more for checking in with your community while away from the computer, rather than a primary driver of your engagement with the platform.
daedrdev 7/1/2025||
They could have been using it in browser. One of discords underrated decisions is that the browser version is fully featured and doesn't force you to download the app, a new user can join a server in their browser with just a name which is as low friction as you can get.
subjectsigma 7/1/2025||
I need the opposite of this. Some of my friends just want to sit in Discord and play the same three games all day every day. I either need a way to get them to do something different or to find new friends
guicen 7/1/2025||
Reminds me of those old coworking circles I used to be part of. Not about being productive really, but more about giving people a reason to show up and talk. Friction gets replaced with rhythm.
baby 7/1/2025||
I tried that a long time ago with teamspeak, and then discord, but my friends are not big users of these tools and so it didnt work. Discords do too much. If whatsapp could do this it could work
Imustaskforhelp 7/1/2025||
I do think that whatsapp could do this tbh if it would actually provide its api like discord does.

Telegram feels like it can definitely do such stuff and I found in my opinion that its way easier to host telegram bot on cloudflare than it is on discord so theoretically you could even have it as a cf worker with a deploy on cf button so as to even people who don't know too much about deploying could use it.

henryaj 7/1/2025|||
WhatsApp has this now - https://faq.whatsapp.com/1973730693032338
cubefox 7/1/2025||
WhatsApp should totally add that as a feature! A voice chat room with join notifications.
squeaky-clean 7/1/2025||
My friend group just uses a separate group chat where the purpose is just to say "Hey I'm hopping onto discord if anyone wants to hang out" and it works well enough.
outlore 7/1/2025||
This reminds me of the Houseparty app that took off with my friend group during Covid. It had a mechanism to notify others when someone had joined a party. Fun times
pizzathyme 7/1/2025||
I wish discord would just implement this as a setting.
mordae 7/1/2025|
Watch Years and Years (2019).
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