Indeed! Why not just call it "asynchronous software development" or something similar? "asynchronous programming" is a bad choice, partly because it will be un-googleable.

The intent is more likely clickbait.

    What I do is is I tell the computer to do something and wait until is done

Not that catchy (even in fewer words).

Dream on!

They don't really as once the spec gets detailed enough it becomes so large and unwieldy that nobody with any actual power reads the things.

An executive at a large company once told me about something where a spec had been written and reviewed by all relevant stakeholders: "That may be what I asked for, but its not what I want."