Posted by mooreds 20 hours ago
Working for others in a corporate environment is hell and will kill you.
Let's make sure people understand that difference.
I'm not set up to work for myself, my ideal is for others to worry about the business, and give me projects I can work on with freedom.
I also had periods of time where a job was making me miserable. Ruining my time outside of work. Making me question everything.
But in most crafts they are easier to avoid or mitigate.
My father also remarked, he was the greediest man he had ever seen. Some people are so intertwined with their "hungry ghosts", work becomes the addiction, and stopping work is like telling an hardcore addict to anything to go cold turkey. To quit and retire would be the withdrawal that kills them rather than the work itself.
His son developed his own upper-class tastes but had no interest in mingling business and pleasure. He had an interest in making international big game hunting trips frequently. Whereas the father's extracurriculars always involved the business, generating leads, etc.; his adult son's extracurriculars were just burning money as a demonstration of status.
Those are the two reasons why he would not step away.
That job was insightful but also depressing because I could recognize my own inadequacy. I want to go home after an 8 hour workday. Not a calendar of dinner with one city council member a week, a second dinner per week with a bank president or similar ilk, going to lunch with various other people, outings, parties, hearings, conferences, etc. It's both exhausting and anxiety-inducing cause of FOMO. I'm sure that's a third reason of why he would not step down.