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Posted by gavinray 1 day ago

Building from zero after addiction, prison, and a felony(gavinray97.github.io)
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sfblah 18 hours ago|
I do think AI will eliminate software as a life path for folks like this.
cat-snatcher 18 hours ago|
wtf xd
jberryman_again 23 hours ago||
(reviving an account this once to just say...) I've been lucky to work closely with Gavin at Hasura for years, and he is really a brilliant and versatile engineer, and is just a pleasure to work with. Great energy, down-to-earth, hilarious. If I had to assemble a "dream team" he would be on it for sure.

Thanks for sharing this part of your story dude!

gavinray 9 hours ago|
Thank you Brandon, you're a good bit more talented than me in my $0.02 but it's been awesome to work with you, too =)
TZubiri 1 day ago||
"AI Use Disclaimer: claude code was used to generate the OpenGraph SVG image.

No part of the prose was machine-generated. You will not find machine-written prose on this blog. I consider it deeply disrespectful."

I really like this disclaimer, by disclaiming that a single small thing was done with AI, you make very credible and notable that you did not use LLMs for the important parts.

jdw64 11 hours ago||
How can someone get up in such a difficult situation? That's impressive
gavinray 10 hours ago||

  > How can someone get up in such a difficult situation?
The alternative is even bleaker
wallst07 11 hours ago||
Survivorship bias... many people don't, the stories of the few that do are impressive and worthy of hearing.
gavinray 10 hours ago||
This is true. It requires a combination of luck, support, and persistence.

You can help cultivate "luck" to a degree by increasing your number of experiences. Every person you happen across could be the one to change your life, and every job application could be the one that calls you back. You never know who is standing next to you in line.

And "support" you can tilt in your favor by trying to be a genuinely good person and being pleasant to be around + making others feel good. Humans gravitate towards people that they like being around.

ry-grah 20 hours ago||
these are my favorite stories from HN.

similarly, i loved the story of the guy who got busted for running an illegal sports streaming site and was able to build himself back up.

hats off to you for your sobriety

Fronkled 20 hours ago||
I created this account to convey my sincere gratitude. I needed to see this today and you've given me inspiration.
himata4113 1 day ago||
I feel happiness reading stories like this. You proved to the world that you can become something great even when all the cards are stacked against you. I often feel despair when I think about where our society is heading, but there will always be people like you who are there to push back against all the wrongs in the world and make the best out of it.
gavinray 1 day ago|
I'm glad! It sounds really corny, but someone once told me "The only thing you can choose in life is your attitude."

Sometimes it felt like I'd never get a break, things wouldn't get better. But I tried to tell myself "Every occurrence in life is a numbers game. Against tiny odds, eventually enough attempts statistically OUGHT to pay off."

And the alternative is bleak, sort of sulking in this pit of despair without hope for tomorrow.

gregorvand 18 hours ago||
thanks for sharing, Gavin. I'm sure this alone will help open doors for many others.
judah 1 day ago||
This was really encouraging to read. Appreciate the honesty and vulnerability. Keeo going, keep sober, and I hope your future stays bright.
maddmann 11 hours ago|
Amazing sorry — thanks for sharing
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