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Posted by BrunoBernardino 1 day ago

The Exhaustion of Talking to a Tool(ohadravid.github.io)
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newtonianrules 1 day ago|
Could you imagine how destroyed people like this would be if they faced actual adversity in life? Like if they had to live through the Spanish Flu, or the Great Depression, or hell even lose a loved one to something as now trivial to treat as tetanus?

Oh, the horror, having to type to a system that will do your job for you while you sit in an air conditioned office in a comfortable chair listening to a podcast while you work.

01100011 1 day ago||
Not my experience, but I'm still new at this.

The way I have worked so far is to look for ways I can influence the model's "thinking" and then add that to my main AGENTS.md. I try to steer it towards a thought process that mirrors or exceeds my own. I find it a fun challenge. I think this stuff becomes less necessary in a year or so as these sorts of tweaks become part of the shipped product from the model makers.

JKolios 1 day ago||
> When you use an LLM, [...] you get to pay the social tax: you converse and negotiate and convince and sometimes even get angry1 at the so-called tool.

Might be a subjective opinion, but this is how writing code always felt to me, even pre-LLMs. An ongoing inner conversation where I try to convince the text on the screen to match the text in my head. It never really felt like tool use in the sense of manual labor.

dwa3592 1 day ago||
I think it depends. If talking to a tool solves a bigger exhaustion (a bug that has been bugging you for a while) then the exhaustion from talking to the tool becomes normalized. I guess this is true for any tool really. Using a hammer causes a bit of strain in your muscles but if it solves a bigger issue of nailing something in the wall then that strain in the muscle is fine. It will take some time to develop that muscle working with AI too.
interestpiqued 1 day ago||
My exhaustion comes from how long winded LLMs are. I ask simple questions and get an essay with bullet points.
blucollar_coder 1 day ago||
I talk to my AI all day. Sometimes my voice goes hoarse
Brainspackle 1 day ago||
i read this post while AI was busy managing jira tickets for me. Otherwise I wouldn't have had the time to be browsing HN right now
joenot443 1 day ago||
Looks like the author submitted it themselves to lobste.rs. Some nice discussion there, as well.

https://lobste.rs/s/csgzki/exhaustion_talking_tool

As an aside, it's nice to see that Lobsters has remained a quiet success. As much as I love HN and the work Dan's done to keep it how it is, I welcome to variety. There are vanishingly few places for polite and earnest discussion online these days.

esseph 1 day ago|
I quickly lost any interest in that site once I realized its dependence on social verification. That "bar" turns the site into an elitist social club. No thanks.
enraged_camel 1 day ago||
>> Is it worth the social brainwork? IDK, for some tasks maybe - there are things a single person can do now that would have been impossible a year ago. But for all tasks? And wouldn’t that social brainwork do more good if it was directed at the real people you are working with?

It's the opposite. Many people find it exhausting to interact with humans, and do so only because they are required to.

Humans often don't understand what you are saying or asking, and they may not know exactly what steps they need to take to find the answer. They get tired. They might get their pride hurt. They might get angry or frustrated. They might judge you because your question is silly or just wrong.

LLMs, for all their faults, have none of these issues. I'm not saying I'd rather talk to LLMs all day every day, but when trying to get shit done, they really can be the superior coworker, especially if you're an introvert and suffer from social-battery-drainage issues.

mym1990 1 day ago|
Fooling yourself into thinking the LLMs are "understanding" what you are saying or asking is a trap. The output you get may be useful, but it is not due to any sort of understanding.

The elements of human work you mentioned are why it can be both rewarding and painful to interact with humans, but at the end of the day it is important to keep trying to do that work/keep trying to interact with each other. I don't know if we want to go back to cubicles where we just talk to robots all day. Of course some work environments are just awful, and there is not much remedy for that.

drdaeman 1 day ago|||
It’s going to sound delusional, but my own understanding of my understanding is that there’s probably no such thing, only a feeling of familiarity and some heuristics.

All I do is invoke “pictures” of semantic blobs in my mind, and my unconscious parts pull up more “pictures” in connection to that. Which I verbalize in turn, apply logic checks, and thus get this feeling that I’m meaningfully thinking about something, a sensation of comprehension. I could be even blatantly wrong about something, misunderstanding doesn’t feel any different in the moment.

And reasoning models (try to) capture that. The underlying processes are certainly different, it’s a Chinese Room alright - but if my own understanding is an illusion, the fact that machine model of it isn’t how I do it myself (but only a statistical approximation) doesn’t seem to matter - at least not for inputs and outputs between two black boxes (me or model).

I just don’t believe in p-zombies any more than I believe in Santa, I guess.

mym1990 17 hours ago||
You don’t think there is such a thing as “understanding” a subject? Knowing the fundamental buildings blocks of that subject? Rearranging those building blocks within other domains to make new discoveries?

A few days ago you commented, in reference to needing an expert for imagery:

“Because someone who knows something about pixels needs to make a judgement.”

Would this person not need “understanding” of how pixels emerge into tasteful art?

This is quite terrifying, a bunch of people who have no understanding of anything, prompting a thing that also has no understanding of what the human is prompting. Good times ahead.

drdaeman 14 hours ago||
> You don’t think there is such a thing as “understanding” a subject?

I probably misunderstood (lol) you, because I was thinking of the phenomenal feeling of "getting it" - which is the only thing that I was able to label as "understanding" that exists in humans, but (I think) not in machine models. But when we feel insight, that's not some "real" understanding, it's a heuristics-powered illusion. That's why I wrote that.

It's quite ironic: I genuinely thought I understand what you're referring to, but that was a misunderstanding.

> Knowing the fundamental buildings blocks of that subject? [...]

Ah, in that sense - as having a mental model of something at its structural level - yes, it exists. But then computer models can understand things too - LLMs are not just giant Markov chains with pure token statistics, they build internal representations way beyond that. Look for the Othello-GPT story, it's pretty small, but quite fascinating how a model had built a world model out of just moves.

> Would this person not need “understanding” of how pixels emerge into tasteful art?

First, let me be clear that the key point there was the judgement bit. A machine lacks personhood, thus it cannot be held responsible, thus cannot make a judgement. That classic IBM memo.

For a judgement alone, just knowledge is sufficient. Seeing an irregularity is pattern matching, "those pixels look sloppy" phase doesn't yet need a "why", just a trained eye. But - yes, understanding is necessary follow-up, how to make those pixels stop raising eyebrows. Gotta not just see that e.g. "this hand has weird fingers", but also why they're weird, and then how to correct that.

> This is quite terrifying

Yes, but - IMHO - not because of how shallow some understanding might be. Competence shifts are perfectly natural, skills that are in demand remain, skills that aren't atrophy, I don't see anything too scary about that.

What's uncanny is that a lot of people indeed pass on judgement and even agency to a tool that has none. "AI" takes jobs, "AI" destroys environment, "AI" makes people zombies, "AI" steals art - that's what's really scary, that a lot of slogans put a veil in front of the actual (very much human) agents and their actions.

enraged_camel 1 day ago|||
>> Fooling yourself into thinking the LLMs are "understanding" what you are saying or asking is a trap. The output you get may be useful, but it is not due to any sort of understanding.

I hear this a lot but I think it's a matter of semantics and ultimately not very useful. I don't care whether the LLM understands me the way a human would. I use the LLM to get useful output. I want it to do something and it does that thing.

mym1990 17 hours ago||
You do you.
throwawa14223 1 day ago|
I feel this. These tools are viscerally unpleasant. Meetings used to be the thing I didn't look forward to but chatting with an AI is the new low point. Reading AI generated text is the written word equivalent of nails on a chalkboard.
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