All of these component libraries look the same.

So essentially they look and operate the same as Radix components at the shadcn level but you have low-level control later on should you need it.

Having a library not in anyway related to that to me feels like a big pro.

I have found React Aria to be very good. I really like how its a set of hooks, a set of premade components using said hooks, and I like how you can choose bits of either approach for your own components. Some of the hooks are very useful.