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Posted by thanedar 12/21/2025

You’re not burnt out, you’re existentially starving(neilthanedar.com)
355 points | 413 commentspage 4
LeftHandPath 12/22/2025||
For the first time in a long time, I can look at a title like this and not feel like it necessarily relates to my current situation. The past few months have been the happiest and most satisfied with life I have been in many years. Grateful.
highfrequency 12/22/2025|
What were the main drivers?
LeftHandPath 12/24/2025||
Moved to NYC. Have a good team at my new job. Satisfied with my income. Have enough free time. Made a lot of good friends really fast, and now I see a rotating cast of them 3-7 days a week. Happy with my apartment. Have an east facing window so I don't have to set an alarm to wake up in the morning, I wake with the sunrise. Getting plenty of exercise and walking a 8-12k steps a day.
kgwxd 12/21/2025||
> It feels like you’re stuck in the ordinary when all you want to do is chase greatness.

Gave up on greatness a long time ago, I'd settle for an "ordinary", where people just kind of try to NOT make bad things worse, or good things less enjoyable.

thanedar 12/21/2025|
Your greatness is still all here! And it can be earned precisely by fighting to fix bad things.

I found that working in politics, against corruption and for Positive Politics, is how I make the most positive impact and gain the most energy!

hackable_sand 12/22/2025||
I hope for your sake there is someone out there to stop you.
blackcat30 12/22/2025||
No, trust me, it is burnout and working too much for too little gain.
nis0s 12/21/2025||
Politics are marketing tools for frameworks and candidates, they don’t provide the frameworks, or any deeper meaning to life itself. What a shallow and dangerous approach.
Induane 12/21/2025||
I am existentially starving AND burned out.

I haven't been lucky enough that startups I got in on early panned out so I don't have the ability to take a sabbatical.

arisAlexis 12/23/2025||
I really don't like articles that are just about plugging in the authors other real business. Nothing new, all truisms.
delifue 12/23/2025||
Key sentence

Because you weren’t suffering from too much work, you were suffering from too little truly important work.

primaprashant 12/21/2025||
Good stuff. You will enjoy my short essay, I want to give a lot of fucks! [1], which argues against the typical conclusion reached by people working at big corp long enough: "Stop caring. Stop giving a fuck. Focus on things outside of work".

The core insight it, if you start to feel the need to stop caring, instead of changing your character and values, treat it as a strong signal to change your environment.

[1]: https://anandprashant.com/posts/i-want-to-give-a-lot-of-fuck...

NoGravitas 12/22/2025|
TFW you understand Marx's theory of alienation, but are desperate for an alternate explanation that puts the blame on workers and doesn't threaten capital.
Herring 12/22/2025|
As Churchill said, Americans can always be trusted to do the right thing … after they have tried everything else.

Last time it took a depression and intense widespread economic pain for them to pick up socialism-lite. I don’t expect it to take anything less next time around. Nobody was asking for universal healthcare during/after the pandemic, we need an actual depression.

johnnyanmac 12/22/2025||
The intense pandemic relief delayed the effects of the pandemic in the US. We might have gotten away with it too, but then Trump pretty much cancelled the soft landing and plunged us off a cliff.

The effects of 2025 and 2026 are pretty much what we should have had in 2021. Prepare yourself.

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